Dear “future” husband
Its the wee hours of the 15th of April 2021 and I find myself writing about you. I have such a vivid image of you and I hope this is just not a dream haha. I don’t know if we have crossed paths yet but all I know is that God is surely preserving you because I pray for you every single day. All I know is you work behind a computer. I have always had a thing for guys who are into computers, IT, management or any other related field so I know you won’t fall far from that category.
I find myself smiling when I think about you. When I think about my future with you, my stomach fills with all the good types of butterflies. Oh what a lover you are! Let me describe you a bit. You are a Jesus lover and a family man. Wisdom embodies you thus I fear not for the future of our family and our kids as we will have the best head of the family. Humility is your biggest attribute my love and you will compliment me in every way. You are an alpha male; a man of stature, authority and respect. With the eyes of a tiger and the leadership strength of a lion, you know exactly what you want and you will stop at nothing to meet your goals. Clothed in dignity and in strength, you execute your plans well and your life has order! I just don’t know if you are African, white or mixed race. My best friend thinks life will be better for me if you are white though.
My parents await your arrival into the family, my mum especially. She finds herself talking to me about you yet she doesn’t know you. You will probably have the best in-laws, they will call you an “in-love.” They will most definitely treat you like their son. Is there anything better than marrying into a happy family that will embrace you so much. I hope you will have a great sense of humour! We laugh a lot in my family.
There are a couple of things you need to be ready for. I am a loud introvert. Yes, I said it! A super loud introvert. Even though I am initially an introvert, once you crack my shell, I’m outgoing and silly – meaning you need to be able to keep up with my silliness and love for things out of the ordinary. I am very outgoing, resilient and hardworking. I am such a jovial person, my smile will warm your heart. I am a lover of babies and I know surely you want to have many of those. Just so you know, I am an alpha female that wants to leave a legacy on this earth. I won’t ask you to build the legacy for me but I will need you to just hold my hand and assure me that everything is going to be alright.
So I will continue to pray for you and wonder if you are out there doing the same for me. I look forward to spending our futures together and sharing special stories of our past. I can’t wait to know who you are, but until then just know there is always someone out there thinking about you. You are already so special to me. You my darling will be spoiled, you will be encouraged, you will be supported and you will be loved.
Ps: I can’t even wait to exercise my cooking skills in our matrimonial home.
Lots of Love
Rue-The future wife….
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